To see a persons highest potential is not wrong…nor is it a waste of your time or energy. It merely means you are operating from a higher frequency and can see what is possible for them.
In fact whenever you are in communion with them and you are able to see their highest potential you are able to hold space for them to step into this potential. The choice to do so or not is completely upto them of course. As it always is.
Now here is the catch …if you are shaky in your own groundedness …then this holding of space can drain you out and make you feel you ” wasted precious life force energy ” in this connection …when you could’ve spent that energy on someone who was similiar to your frequency.
So the idea is not to filter out those that do not match your frequency….it is to train yourself enough to stay in your centered frequency no matter what.
Another thing to always remember gently is that, as human beings, we are always evolving.
What we embody today is not always who we were. A lot of people extended us grace….gave us the benefit of doubt when we perhaps needed it.
Maybe others held space for us and reflected to us, in their steadfast love or compassion a higher potential that we eventually stepped into.
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