Different individuals have different roles to play. You must never feel that you OUGHT to be doing something that you are not completely flowing into. If it fails to light you up from within, whilst doing it, then it may not be what you were meant to be doing anyway.
Guilt is not a very good indicator of the path you are meant to walk upon.
Only joy is the true compass of that path.
Follow that joy. Like your own individuated unique GPS.
Do not let anyone guilt you into anything that does not feel like its coming from within.