You truly cease to judge others ONLY when you have ceased judging yourself.
When you can look back at your journey without squirming , feeling ashamed, feeling like a victim or feeling accomplished and proud.
Feeling only love , acceptance and being able to belly laugh at your ‘ digressions ‘ or ‘ mistakes.’
Knowing that it was all a part of the journey and you would not change anything about any of it. Completely accept ALL of it, without feeling the need to explain any of it or make excuses for any of it.
A quiet and complete acceptance.
Only then can you truly be that for others.