Knowing that you are enough.
That is all that self confidence entails.
True self confidence can never be generated by anything outside of oneself.
Not through physical appearances, not any measures of success or knowledge acquired.
You can be utterly gorgeous to look at and still feel as if you are not enough in some way or another and that robs you of your confidence. You can be a professor and know all there is to know about a particular subject and yet feel as if you are lacking knowledge in some other aspect of life.
Ask yourself, were we meant to know it ALL , or BE it all ?
Visualise all the pieces in a puzzle. Each one separate does not really make sense but together it creates a complete picture. If even one of those puzzle pieces were to go missing ….the entire picture would be incomplete. Thats how important it is for the piece to be exactly who the puzzle piece was meant to be.
Self confidence never comes out of external standards of perfection. It comes from a quiet place deep within. It comes from a place of contentment. It comes from knowing that you are enough.
That in your own quirky way, you complete the picture.