There is always a choice given to you…to succumb to fear or align yourself to love.
When anyone in your experience is being angry, jealous , possessive, playing the victim card, being vindictive, spiteful etc, there is a huge temptation to also do the same in the guise of being wronged.
Righteousness, however well disguised, is also aligned to fear at some level.
The only way out of this endless loop is the choice to step up and align yourself to love.
When you align yourself with love , a miraculous thing happens. You are supported in ways that you never imagined possible. You become the light that you aligned yourself to. The memory of the hurt shifts in such a way that it feels like a faraway dream. Your perspective changes so much that you can’t imagine you were ever stuck in the futility of fear.
Love is the only way out.