It is what it is.
I find myself saying this, on the inside, a lot lately.
It is what it is.
So what does this even mean ? Does it mean Im getting cynical, jaded and resigned to it all ?
OR, is it rather, a gradual letting go of how I felt things should be , how people should be , how I should be , how relationships should turn out and that list goes on?
Basically a lot of ‘ should’s’ .
With ” it is what it is , ” Im learning to let life unfold in its own way, at its own pace and being ok with it all. Becoming more of an observer and not being so actively entrenched in trying to fit/ fix things, or adjust / adapt / change anything. Learning to slowly trust in the bigger picture.
Accepting that all is exactly how it should be in any case, including me.
It is what it is.
A journey away from illusion, towards what really is.
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