Stop testing how much you are loved by others.
If you are doing that, you have already failed in how much you should be loving yourself.

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Living close to the surface, treading water in the shallows….fooling yourself into believing its safe.
The depths call out to you. Plunge in , they say !
Never mind the shredding of your heart….the ripping apart of the shells covering your naked soul ….plunge in !

Plunge into the depths of what you fear the most.
Let it tear you apart and set you free.

Searing words , when not allowed to find freedom through expression, turn my insides into molten lava. Ah the destruction ! The pain !

There is no condition that I need met , to have a happy day. No condition that I need met, before I love me or the beautiful people in my life❤

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Have the courage to look into the eyes of everyone you meet. Their eyes tell a story that their words often cannot.

Before that, have the courage to look into the eyes that stare at you in your mirror. Look into those eyes with love, with kindness. If you can do that, looking into another persons eyes becomes so much easier.

— Oscar Wilde.

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